Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Setting Boundaries With In-laws

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You're mother-in-law has different ideas about how to raise children.  Both your family and his family want you over for Christmas.  Your husband tells his mother everything.  And that's just a start!  Arguments about how to handle situations with in-laws is common among most couples.  It can be a struggle to balance your loyalties between spouse and family of origin, and sometimes it can lead to family feuds.  I'll share some guidelines to help you set healthy boundaries with your in-laws, but first, you may want to make sure you're caught up on what I mean by "boundaries".  Read my posts on boundaries here and here.

The big family-style dinner
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First of all, ideally your relationship with your spouse is closer than either of your relationships are with your own parents or siblings.  Marriage is a life-long commitment to your spouse, and your spouse only.  If you want your marriage to last, you have to make a commitment that nothing (including in-laws) will come between you.  This is not meant to discount the honor, respect, and loyalty you may have for your family.  It simply means that marriage is an intimate bond that has to come first.  Period.

Once you are able to make the commitment to your spouse that the marriage boundaries will be closer than all other boundaries, it's time to come together and establish boundaries with the in-laws that you both agree on.  This is sometimes the hardest part.  Think of each person in a marriage coming from a different country; each person with have his or her own language, customs, traditions, and beliefs.  It's up to the couple to create a new "country", and part of this new country will be a set of rules that govern boundaries with in-laws.  Just like most governments, these rules (boundaries) will be reviewed and updated as circumstances require.

Communicate your boundaries clearly to your in-laws after you have determined what they will be with your spouse.  Because different families have different forms of communication, you will need be as clear as possible.  Making side comments or jokes about what you want in your relationship with your in-laws is usually confusing (unless that's the language of that particular family).  Acting on your boundaries without explanation can also be confusing.  Your intentions might be misunderstood.  For example, continually opting out of family activities with various excuses may come across differently than simply saying, "My husband and I prefer to spend one-on-one time with the kids."  Consider using an "I" statement: "I need ____________ when _____________ because I think/feel ______________."

Along with communicating clearly, it's important to avoid triangulation.  Triangulation is therapy-talk for having someone else be the go-between.  Think back to elementary school when you were too embarrassed to talk to you crush directly, so you had a friend deliver messages like, "Do you like me?" and "I don't want to be your girlfriend anymore."  Now that we're adults, it's important to talk directly to the person that we are trying to establish boundaries with.  This can be a tall order in certain relationships, but trust me, it's worth it in the end.  For example, if you and your spouse have decided that you don't want your mother-in-law stopping by unannounced (because you want to have time to throw the kids' toys behind closed doors and turn on your Scentsy), don't have your sister-in-law be the one to tell her.  That puts your sister-in-law in a bad spot (even if she is willing an able), it opens the doors for miscommunication, and robs you of the opportunity to work on your relationship with your mother-in-law directly.  If you can't speak up for yourself on small boundary issues, how will you be able to address major issues in the future?  It is also fine if your husband wants to communicate the boundary to his mother as long as he is representing the team.  If he says, for example, "The wifey doesn't want you coming over unless you call first," he's not communicating that this is a team decision.  He would ideally say, "We would prefer some notice if you are coming over for a visit."  Emphasis on the "we".

With all of that said, here's a list of boundary issues with in-laws that you may want to consider discussing with your spouse.  You may have already discussed these, but chances are that you will be discussing them again as your family relationships change and develop.  If you're in a dating relationship, these are great things to discuss BEFORE marriage.  Have I mentioned yet that I'm a fan of premarital counseling?

  • Family time:  How much of your time will be spent with your extended family, his extended family, and your own little family that you have together?
  • Finances: How much are you going to let your in-laws help you out financially?  Remember that if your in-laws are helping you financially, you will have some obligations to them.  They may have more leverage to dictate decisions that would otherwise be only up to you and your spouse.  Which leads me to...
  • Major life decisions:  How will you incorporate the opinions and preferences of your in-laws?  Working together as a team is a great way to establish some independence.
  • Marital conflict:  Is it ever ok for your spouse to share with his parents the conflicts you two are having?  If the emotional boundary with a parent is so close that the parent knows everything that's going on in that marriage (and naturally tends to give a lot of advice), this could lead to further conflict and unhappiness in the marriage.  Remember that you want the marital boundary to be the closest.  If the couple decides that they need some help and advice, it might be wisest to go together to get counsel from a parent. 
  • Holidays:  Which traditions will you participate in with the in-laws?  How do you split the time between your family and his family?
  • Babysitting:  How often do you want your in-laws to babysit your children?
As I've said before, every boundary will look different in every family.  What is healthy for one marriage may not be healthy in the next.  You have to decide what kinds of boundaries work best for you.  

How have you managed your boundaries with in-laws?  What issues would you add to my list?

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  1. This has been such an issue for my sister-in-law and her husband. They are not smart with money and he has been out of work for over a month. At first, they were very secretive about it and wouldn't tell her parents. But now, my husband's parents have been paying off a lot of their bills, paying their rent, and feeding them. They live just around the corner from his parents, too, which makes it even worse. It's really hard to separate yourself from the in-laws when you depend on them for your financial support. In your opinion, what is the best way to deal with this scenario? Is it better for them to move in with her parents since they basically live off of them already? I think her parents should just cut off all financial support and let them learn the hard way.

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  2. This is an on-going discussion at our house. We don't necessarily have anything to add to the discussion about "what works" but I absolutely agree that this is important! It is a work in progress over here.

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  3. Fiona, it's hard to make a call on someone's situation when you haven't heard both sides of the story. It's possible that your sis-in-law and her parents may enjoy having close boundaries, and they may not mind the financial dependence. It's different for everyone, and it certainly depends on how much money parents have to share. The one thing I would recommend is being able to have a frank conversation about financial boundaries that includes expectations from both parties.

    It sounds like you have identified that you like stricter boundaries when it comes to financial issues. I'm glad you are able to identify that for yourself!

    Josh & Angela, I'm glad that the issue is an on-going discussion! That's the best way to get the boundaries where you want them to be! Good point: Every relationship is a "work in progress"!

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    1. My husband and I are in same situation. We help our oldest daughter and her family with a lot of financial support while he continues to attend college and hold two minimum paying jobs. She is a stay at home mom to their son.
      I understand the need for healthy boundaries. Her husband wants boundaries on many issues regarding their family, but wants us to be supportive financially with no voice. This at times is hard because we feel he can get better employment but does not. We would like them to be more financially stable, but considers our economy today in our area and the fact that he seems to be trying. It is a challenge when it seems our opinions regarding anything does not matter.

      The situation is hard because we know our grandson and daughter will be affected if we choose to let them do alone.

      How much is too much help enabling him to not strive for better income jobs? He's an orphan and we've taken him as ours in supporting, but it seems its not the same kind of relationship from his end emotionally only monetary. He can sometimes be disrespectful.

      What should we do?

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    2. What should you do? Tell your daughter that being a stay-at-home mom isn't an option when the family is struggling financially. Maybe his disrespect toward you is transference of the resentment he feels toward his wife for not contributing financially & her coming to you to bail them out.

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  4. I find boundaries are harder with my mom than my in-laws. My mom is a widow, so my in-laws have each other for holidays/vacations when we're not with them whereas my mom is alone. That's hard to deal with since she wants my brother and I to visit her together on the same holidays. My mom also rarely states what she wants openly (more the passive aggressive type thing), whereas my in-laws do--what a breath of fresh air! SO much simpler to deal with parents who just tell you what they're thinking/wanting. My mom also isn't really a self-sufficient babysitter, whereas my in-laws are, again this complicates her trips to see the grandkids. Timely post--both my in-laws AND my mother arrive tomorrow. :)

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  5. JJ - I'm curious how you manage that. We are in a similar situation with my father-in-law, who - from the start - has not only had trouble understanding boundaries but routinely completely ignores our wishes - showing up unannounced even when we've asked him repeatedly to call, letting himself into our home when we're away even when we've asked him not to, and even inviting his own friends over for dinner at our house when babysitting....and we find out about it when we walk in and there's a gang of people here. Now that my mother in law has passed, it has become exponentially worse (hard to believe, eh?) and, to top it off, it's made it much, much harder for my husband and I to come to an agreement on enforcing boundaries or talking to him about it because my husband empathizes so much with his father that, even if I take the bull by the horns and say something, it will - inevitably - end in a HUGE fight. Short of a "him or me" thing, I'm at a loss. Curious how you handle it with your mom....and how your husband does.

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    1. Jen, I know you're interested in JJ's advice, but I'll throw my hat in the ring, too. :) As I stated before, the first step is finding common ground with your husband. It may be a HUGE fight, but the conversation has to start somewhere. Perhaps you can write down a few ideas about boundaries with your father-in-law and suggest to your husband to write down a few of his own ideas. Choose a good time and place to have a productive discussion about setting boundaries. If you both know you are going to discuss a particular issue, you can each prepare yourself menatally and emotionally so that you can be at your most agreeable. Once you're decided on the boundaries you want with your father-in-law, it might be best to have your husband talk to him about the boundaries because he has a closer relationship and may be able to talk to him more easily. I hope that helps!

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  6. I'm having some of the same issues but it involves a future sister-in-law that does not have any boundaries. She constantly calls/texts my fiancee thoughout the day (including while at work and while we sleep) to find out what he's doing, where he is, or sometimes nothing at all. She has moved twice to be closer to him (each time around 15-20 mins away). And often suggests that he does weekend sleepovers to hang out (they are both in their late 20s). The thing is: she has a family of her own and often calls/texts during movies/family time with her own family. All in all, she still finds the time to be a constant presence in our relationship and doesn't see anything wrong with the overbearing/inappropriate behavior. I am honestly beyond annoyed but I have no idea how to bring up the conversation of creating boundaries with her to my fiancee without him being offended. Any advice on the best way to approach this situation?

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    1. Thank you for your question. That sounds like a difficult situation! Is your future sister-in-law your husband's sister? Am I getting that correct? As I have stated before, it's absolutely crucial to talk to your fiance about this boundary issue first. You both need to get on the same page about how you want to set boundaries in your relationship with your sister-in-law. I understand that you don't want to offend him, but harboring this resentment could lead to a big fight with him and/or your sister-in-law in the future. And that will probably be MORE offensive!

      I suggest writing down your feelings about this troublesome relationship. Try to figure out what your main concern is (is it time with your fiance, jealousy, etc.?). Then figure out a few solutions that you could live with. After you've done your own thinking, approach your fiance. Maybe set aside a specific time when distractions will be minimal. Present your thoughts and feelings on the issue, along with some ideas for soluations. Be open-minded and respectful of your fiance's response. This will be a good test to see how you both are able to work out difficult issues. Trust me, you will have many other things to discuss as a couple in the future! Praciticing the skill of working together to develop solutions is very valuable!

      After you and your fiance are on the same page, one or both of you will need to communicate your desire for different boundaries to your sister-in-law. Good luck! Let me know how it goes!

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    2. Thank you so much Amy! I'll keep you posted.

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    3. After 9 years in marriage with my hubby with 3 kids, my husband started going out with other ladies and showed me cold love, on several occasions he threatens to divorce me if I dare question him about his affair with other ladies, I was totally devastated and confused until a old friend of mine told me about a spell caster on the internet Dr. Trust who help people with the relationship and marriage problem by the powers of love spells, at first I doubted if such thing ever exists but decided to give it a try, when I contact him, he helped me cast a spell and within 24hours my husband came back to me and started apologizing, now he has stopped going out with ladies and he his with me for good and for real. Contact this great spell caster for your relationship or marriage problem at ultimatespellcast@gmail.com. Goodluck or Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com

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  7. I don't know where to begin. This is our 2cd marriage, my kids are grown and live in another state. He had custody of 2 middle aged kids. My mother is no longer living and my dad lives in another state. I move to his state after dating for 1 1/2 years, all of his family live here in the same town. His parents are divorced, dad is remarried, mom is not. Before we married I talked to him about me helping raise his kids and what I expected out of a marriage and family values. How I wanted him to be head of house, all the way to his kids doing choirs and helping us. He never said a word (which should have been my sign) other then he agreed. We now have been married for 1 year. In the year has obviously been many problems. His mother actually raises the kids with no discipline, no chores. They all lived together before I moved here. His mother comes over everyday while we are at work after they get off the bus to "help" them do their homework (they are old enough to stay home alone for 1 1/2 hours by themselves and I work less then a mile from home). So Monday Thru Friday she is there. The Mother of the children gets them every other weekend (no problems with her). On the weekends that we have the kids the mom in law is over or the kids will spend the night with her. I am never informed of what is going on, if I discipline them she goes behind my back. I have found out that she also has done their chores for them. My husband and I bought a house that needs work, I have asked him time and time not to tell his mom what colors we choose or what we are doing to the house (she never likes my choices and tells the kids). With all that he tells her everything, including what we paid for things. He sees her everyday, they talk 2 and 3 times a day and text and he sends pics of the house as complete. I have numerous times tried talking to my husband, he blows up tells me I am ridicuouls. I have printed articles, bible verses, wrote letters. He just agrees and nothing is ever changed. When people say sit down and talk that is out of the question. I have told him that my baggage I have brought into this marriage is very minimum, no kids no parents. I am here to help him and I wanted a family but I am the out sider looking in.

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    1. That sounds like such a difficult situation! Thanks for sharing. You are definitely coming into a family system that has been functioning for a long time, and changes are difficult. You can do your best to present your ideas for change, but it does require the others in the family to make changes as well. You will need to decide if you can make it work in this family system even if you can't always have the boundaries you want (not matter how right they seem to you). There are many right ways for families to work together. Have you ever tried talking directly to your mother-in-law? Good luck with this situation. Please keep me posted!

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    2. Respect sounds like a good place to start. It sounds like you have turned your life inside out for this family and they will continue to expect you to do so. When someone doesn't value us, they don't value our feelings, thoughts or opinions and it seems the relationship would not have progressed had you not given up your hometown to be with him. There seems to be no flexibility and no appreciation for what you do, do. The lower our boundaries, the more we risk getting hurt if the person doesn't value us. That is why it is so important to go into a relationship very clear of what your priorities are and what is required for you to be happy. I have gone into relationships with very low boundaries, but this time I am being very upfront about what is important to me and I don't extend myself passed half way in this dating phase. It really helps sorts out whether the relationship has merit. Also, I think instinctually, we value what we have to work harder for and we don't work for what we don't value. I can't see any room for anything to change without you being the bad guy. It may come down to you choosing to nurture your self respect in whatever way is important to you. Once you start looking after you, without apology, anger or closing off your heart to your hubby or your inlaws, possibly they might slowly see you differently - but expect a fight for you to be your own woman. It is very convenient for them to have you just as you are and just as you were when you "came into the family". Marriage counselling might help you and your hubby to create boundaries around your own intensely intimate, private sanctuary, and invite your inlaws in to your world only when you are both ready and have agreed. I'm here because my partner's parents are ultra conservative Christians. They accept me because I make their son so happy but they do judge me harshly and look down on me for being different to them. My partner and I do have our own private sphere and it is agreed that his parents are never to be given access to our intimate connection. That said, he does have a very loving and joyful relationship with his parents and I support that. They have daily contact and it works well. It's just I don't appreciate being judged, for being true to myself, although I am accepted, by his parents as a really good partner for their son.

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    3. I am from USA,i hear how people are talking about The powerful spell caster called DR TRUST in regard of how he bring back ex lover,winning lottery,getting pregnant and getting married to their dream true lover and i also contact him to help me cast a spell in regard of my ex lover whom i love so much that left me 2yrs ago,but today my ex is back to me and we are happily married with 3kids and i am so much happy for the help i found in you DR TRUST. I and my family are very much happy and we are living large now,i am grateful and appreciate your good work of spell casting,thank you and may you leave long to help people in problems His email is Ultimatespellcast@gmail.com call +2348156885231

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  8. I am having a lot of trouble with my partners family. They are always lovely to me but it feels fake like they are trying to drive me nuts they want to be involved in every part of our lives and it keeps getting worse. They gave us some money for the deposit for our home and I now feel like I owe them. They expect us to let them look after our son once I start back at work even though my partner and I have decided to put him in child care. They always buy things for my son and never listen when I say no thank you we want to stand on our own feet. My partner tells them everything we do and they come over at least three times a week, call him all day long and we all have to go for dinner once a week. They followed us on our holiday we had planned for months and they decided they would go there too and did all the same things we did! I told a friend we were planning to move to another town within two years, she told my MIL and now my MIL has now started to tell people that they are moving there too though she has not spoken to us about it! It is really making me angry and I don't think our relationship can survive his family I have tried at least three times toget her to back off but she never does.

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  9. Wow this blog and the posts really helped me to identify a few root issues in my marriage that need to change. My sister-in-law lives with my husband and I and has been in the picture since we started dating. It's been a few years now, we have a child and she still lives with us and or otherwise maintains a close proximity (a few miles). She contributes financially to the household income and has been most helpful when things got tight budget wise. However she has meddled in our personal finances and it did result in a huge loss of money. My husband and I have been struggling a great deal and divorce is a topic that is brought up almost every time we have an issue, and if the sister is upset its overwhelming for my husband and he shuts down. I feel like I can't voice my concerns without overwhelming him. He is always concerned for her mental and emotional well being and making sure he attends her personal interests to support her. Usually this comes at a price, quality time with me, or me and the baby exhausted with no energy left for our marriage. Often times my husband chooses to rely on his sister for support because she has always been there for him which I understand but it doesn't give me a chance to be his rock. I thought I just needed to jump on board and support his efforts with his sister and try and bond with her, which is what he wanted, so I did but she is also best friends with my husbands ex-girlfriend and likes to bring her to family events which threw me for a loop. I'm afraid to put my foot down and become their mutual enemy. He is very loving father and works very hard but I feel like I have to fight for some personal respect... did I mention their mother is now ill? I think this could be a great opportunity for me to prove I can be there for him, but he would rather rely predominantly on his sister. *airing my dirty laundry*

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  10. Good day, i would love to share a wonderful testimony. I was happily married for about Four years before me and my husband started having problems haven tried everything i knew i thought all hope were lost and i cried for a long time before i was introduced to a prophet called Dibia Yesufu by a friend of mine that he had helped previously. This prophet helped me put everything back in order by his special prayers and today we are still happily married so i want to use this media to challenge anyone of you who is passing through difficulties to contact this man, we were created to have the best of life not to cry every night and day i know how it hurts because have been there so if you know you are passing through any challenge contact him on his email prophetdibiayesufu@outlook.com. this is the best Prophet that has ever lived am so sure of that because he has also helped some of my friends through me.Again his email is prophetdibiayesufu@outlook.com or his phone +2348170742631.

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  11. My husband and I recently had a little boy and everything seemed to be going well...until I found out that his aunt disrespected my wishes and showed up to the hospital while I was still under sedation from an emergency c-section. My husband was with me and my immediate family in recovery while his family apparently took pictures and passed around my little one. His aunt and family lied for weeks stating she never saw him and she wanted to com over, despite our decision to only allow immediate family and my best friend to come over for the first few weeks. When I found out and told my husband, he asked her and a family issue started to form. Now I have heard they talk about us not allowing them to see our son and how we do not allow his picture on facebook. And they are already giving us grief about the upcoming holidays, as we use to go to three different houses every holiday to accommodate their schedule. My husband finally said something to his mother and she still doesn't respect or decisions. Help!

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  12. Wow!!!! what an experience! dr.marnish is a wonderful spell caster, he has made my life complete again by helping me cast a spell to return my girlfriend and also make her to be faithful to me again. I was skeptical at first, but what a believer I am now, his spell really worked! my lover is now faithful to me, if you are also seeking for help to get your lover back? Call +15036626930 or email dr.marnish@yahoo.com

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  14. I am struggling with my in laws. Before our son was born we would see my husband's parents almost every weekend for a family dinner. Sometimes we wouldn't see them if on a weekend here and there if we had stuff going on. This was fine with me and I would put up with the little annoyances since it was only once a week. When I got pregnant, my mother in law first started by telling me " I will be in the delivery room". We had told her a few times throughout the pregnancy that we wanted to be in the room alone. She didn't care and continued to complain about that. On the day of my delivery, when the doctor told everyone to leave the room as I was about to deliver, she put her head to the side and whined like a litlte girl and said, "I want to stay" and gave a pouty face. I struggle with saying NO to my husband's parents and elders, so I said ok. I resent that she put us in that position after we had already expressed our wishes. Then after our son was born it everyday there is a new complaint. She constantly would want to hold him as a newborn, I let her. But when he would cry she would just sit there and let him cry. I would go to pick him up from her. She would pull him away from me and tell me it's ok for him to cry. She complained and criticized for months that we respond to our crying baby and won't let her continue to hold him while he is crying. She complained that I breastfed because then he would be too attached to me. She complained that I wouldn't let her come with me to his doctor appts. It's been 15 months and I have slowly created boundaries. She complains to her husband who then calls and yells at my husband weekly about whatever it is she is complaining about this week. This is still going on to this day. I have tried to limit our visits with them for the weekend, once a week at most. She tries to come over during the week. I work from home and have a nanny and I honestly just need to limit my time around her because she stresses me out so much and is invasive emotionally and physcially. It's exhausting. She complains that she doesn't see our son enough, but when she was seeing him more frequently (in the beginning) she complained about other things. I need space from her and I think me giving them 2-3 times a month is more than generous. My husband and I can't handle the stress of his dad calling weekly and yelling at us for his mom. I resent that for the past 15 months I have had to constantly deal with appeasing my MIL instead of just being able to focus all of my attention and energy on enjoying this special time with our first child. My husband has tried to communicate with them, but they are very irrational and just yell and dismiss him. I don't want to have to be the one to confront them, but I will if I have to. I do feel that at this point if the complaining and yelling doesn't stop, I will have to just remove myself and my son from their lives as it's toxic and it's not healthy for me.

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  15. Hello to the Entire Public, my name is Bradley Speck from Housto texas.I came to this site to share the good works of the Native Doctor (Dr Akim).I never believed in love,Money spells or magic until i meant this powerful spell caster when i went to Africa in December last year on a business trip. He is really powerful and he can help you cast spells to bring back love one`s gone lost ,misbehaving,lover looking for some one to love you,Money riches,Winning lotto number, bringing back lost your lover, Bring back lost money and magic money spell for a good job,I`m now happy and living testimony because the man i had wanted to marry left me 2 weeks before our wedding day and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for years ..I really loved him, but his mother was against us and he had no good paying job . So when i meant this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him..At first, I was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 5days time when i returned to Texas, my boyfriend (now my husband,Dr Speck) called me himself and apologized that everything had been settled with his mum and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married and my sister who has been sick of cancer was healed..i didn`t believe it cos the spell caster only asked me for my name and my husbands name and all i wanted him to do he did it for me… We are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,and my husband also got the new job and our lives became much better and we became very rich. In case any one needs the spell caster for some help, Email him on this email address: BESTLOVEDOCTOR@YAHOO.COM ……hope he helps you out. Hurry now and contact him now via email address:BESTLOVEDOCTOR@YAHOO.COM Or you can call him at +2348159645271 .. Thank you very much and i am very happy right now.. Bradley Speck

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  16. It was a complete sudden stop in my life when my relationship with my fiancee came to a halt without any reason and he said that he has fallen for someone else, it was Dr. Eziza who helped me get back my fiancee with a love spell and now we are happily married, thanks a lot Dr. Eziza. If you need his help to restore your relationship back, you can contact him via ezizaoguntemple@gmail.com or +2348058176289

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  17. Great Thanks to Dr Ofemo for helping me when i needed help.
    My name is frank Marian from USA I never
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    DR Ofemo temple, and after he cast a love spell for me
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  18. I and my boy friend as been separated for a long period, I came across different spell caster and they were all unable to bring my lover back. I was so sad and almost gave up on him when i met a spell man called DR Oba, who helped me get my lover back. Ever since then i have been so happy and could not believe it would happen. He also helped me with success spell, I have been living happily with my lover now and will be getting married soon. Here is his contact if you need his help. drobaspellhome@gmail.com

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  19. i am hear to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 2 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come again and he called me that he want a divorce, I asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying that he want a divorce and that he hates me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just
    want to try if something will come out of it. I contacted Drehiaghe for the return of my husband to me, he told me that my husband have been taken by another woman that she cast a spell on him that is why he hates me and also want us to divorce. then he told me that he have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, he cast the spell and after 3 days my husband called me
    and he told me that i should forgive him, he settled to apologize on phone and said that he still love me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that the Drehiaghe shrine casted on him that made him come back to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you DR.ehiaghe for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want
    you my friends who are passing through this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact ehiaghespellhome@gmail.com and you will see that your problem will be solved.

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  20. sandy
    i am Sandy from UK,last year my husband left me for another woman in his working place and he abandon me and my 2kids, everything was so hard for me because i love him so much, i want my husband to leave the other women and come back to me.and a friend told me about a powerful spell caster doctor called Dr IRABOR of iraborspelltemple@gmail.com and i just contact him immediately without wasting time today my husband is back and he is stick to me forever and i am here to say a very Big thanks and appreciation to you Doc for all you did for me,i and my family are happy more than ever before,email iraborspelltemple@gmail.com for marital assistance.

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  21. My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. I contacted Dr. OKORO LOVE SPELL and after I explained my problem, In just 3 days my husband came back to us and show me and my kids much love and apologize for all the pain he have bring to the family. We solved our issues, and we are even happier more than ever before Dr. OKORO you are the best spell caster. I really appreciate the love spell you cast for me to get the man back to my life i will keep sharing more testimonies to people about your good work. Thank you once again Dr. OKORO. You can also contact Dr. OKORO via email address: dr.okorospelltemple01@ gmail. com in case you are in any problem you can contact this man for help he is always there in his temple to help you solve your problem Contact Email is: dr.okorospelltemple01@ gmail. com CONTACT HIM TODAY VIA THIS EMAIL ADDRESS: dr.okorospelltemple01@ gmail. com AS HIS POWERS ARE SO STRONG AND VERY EFFECTIVE AND HAS NO BAD EFFECT INSTEAD IT HAVE A VERY GOOD RESULT AFTER CASTING THE SPELL.

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  22. After been in relationship with a guy for 3 years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that don't believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I meant a spell caster called Dr, Aduwawa and I email him, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: (aduwawaspiritualtemple1@gmail.com) or you can call him on +2348112019701, you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR.

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  23. am currently in a serious relationship with a guy whom I have introduced to my family,he has three elderly ones and one younger sis who is an IMBECILE ; who is about my age, she cant walk, talk. I noticed anytime I visit him , he brings the sis to sleep in the middle on the same bed: to make the matter worst , I got talking with the housemaid who confided in me that the family is planning to put the girl in our house when we are married is this right?

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  24. My Name is Helen, from United Kingdom. I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called Dr John has just done for me, this man has just brought back my lost Ex husband to me with his great spell, I was married to this man called Ariel we were together for a long time and we loved our self’s but when I was unable to give him a child for 2 years he left me and told me he can’t continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email, then you won’t believe this when I contacted this man on my problems he prepared this spell cast and bring my lost husband back, and after a month I miss my month and go for a test and the result stated am pregnant am happy today am a mother of a set of twins, thank you once again the great Dr John for what you have done for me.

    if you are out there passing through any problem like:

    (1) If you want your ex back.

    (2) if you always have relationship problem.

    (3) You want to be promoted in your office.

    (4) You want cure for any disease.

    (5) If you want a child.

    (6) You want to be rich.

    (7) You want people to obey your words.

    (8) If you need financial assistance ETC..

    you can contact his email on PROPHETBAZ34@YAHOO.COM ....

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  25. My name is Joyce and my ex-boyfriend dumped me 8 months ago after I caught him of having an affair with someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don't know what to do, so I visited the INTERNET for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problems to him..... he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3 days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my man came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you Temple of permanent healing, you are truly talented and gifted. dr.jartospellcaster@gmail.com is the only answer to any relationship problem.he can be of great help and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man dr.jartospellcaster@gmail.com

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  26. No one could have ever made me believe that the letter I’m about to write would actually one day be written. I was the world’s biggest skeptic. I never believed in magic spells or anything like that, but I was told by a reliable source (a very close co-worker) that Dr. Lametu is a very dedicated, gifted, and talented person, and after much “cajoling,” she (my co-worker) got me to visit this website. It was one of the best things I have ever done. My lovelife was in shambles; I had been through two divorces and was on the brink of a third. I just couldn’t face another divorce, and I wanted to try harder to make our relationship work, but my husband didn’t seem to care. So, with nothing but my pride to lose, I checked it out. I was flabbergasted. This man is for REAL. He did whatever magic he does, and lo and behold – no more than TWO DAYS later, I had my husband back! It was like a miracle! He suddenly wanted to go to marriage counseling, and we’re doing very, very well, on the road to recovery! Love and Many Blessings Back to You! Ancientfathersandmothers@gmail.com

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  27. I had a problem with my boyfriend 6 months ago, which lead to our broke up. When he broke up with me, i was not myself again; i fill so empty inside me. Until a friend of mine told me about a spell caster who helped her in the same problem too. i email the spell caster and i told him my problem and i did what he asked of me, to cut the long story short. Before i knew what was happening, not up to 48 hours, my boyfriend gave me a call and he come back to me and told me he was sorry for everything that happen,i am so greatful to this spell caster and will not stop publishing his name on the net for the good work he is doing.If you need his help,you can email him at onimalovespell@gmail.com and he will also help you too Dr Kasee of onimalovespell@gmail.com or tel +2347051705853 i will forever be greatful to you.

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  28. Thank you for your article! It touches my heart deeply because I have recently went through something similar 3 years ago before all this spells and spell casters madness on the INTERNET started which makes people to be confuse and scam them of their money. ALSO IF YOU DON’T BELIEVE IN MAGIC AND SPELLS, I THINK YOU ARE MISTAKEN, DON’T GET ME WRONG, I ONCE HAD MY DOUBTS, TOO.
    THIS IS MY STORY: I was married for 6years with 2 kids a boy and a girl and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time… it got worse at a point that My husband filed for a divorce. I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me because I love him so much and I don’t want to loose him but everything just didn’t work out, he moved out of the house because it was a rented apartment and still went ahead to file for divorce… I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. I was surfing the internet for solution on what to do when one Dr. Zigaga of islea shrine DUPED me of my hard earned money because I was so desperate to get my husband and children back, Dr. zigaga it will not be well with you were ever you are. The breakthrough came when Monalisa my best friend introduced me to this wonderful, great prophet named Prophet Abayotor who eventually helped me out. I have never been a fan of things like this but I just decided to try reluctantly because I was desperate and left with no choice, behold within a week after the regular prayers and proceeding, my parent call me on phone and said that I should come home immediately, when I did my husband was with them immediately he saw me he came to me and knelt down begging me to forgive him that he was so sorry for how he treated me. That it was his mother that made him dislike me so much, I was shocked and began to cry because I thought I lost him forever, immediately I forgave him and he promised that he will always love me, immediately he opt out in filing for the divorce from there we moved into our new apartment together. As for Prophet he is real and cleared my doubts, me made me belief in thing I never believed in Prophet Abayotor you are the best I say Thank you, you can see his website at http://www.ajamugatemple.com/ and contact him here at ajamugashrine @gmail.com or at ajamuaga.spiritual.love.temple@gmail.com and tell him I introduced you to him.

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  29. Thank you for your article! It touches my heart deeply because I have recently went through something similar 3 years ago before all this spells and spell casters madness on the INTERNET started which makes people to be confuse and scam them of their money. ALSO IF YOU DON’T BELIEVE IN MAGIC AND SPELLS, I THINK YOU ARE MISTAKEN, DON’T GET ME WRONG, I ONCE HAD MY DOUBTS, TOO.
    THIS IS MY STORY: I was married for 6years with 2 kids a boy and a girl and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time… it got worse at a point that My husband filed for a divorce. I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me because I love him so much and I don’t want to loose him but everything just didn’t work out, he moved out of the house because it was a rented apartment and still went ahead to file for divorce… I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. I was surfing the internet for solution on what to do when one Dr. Zigaga of islea shrine DUPED me of my hard earned money because I was so desperate to get my husband and children back, Dr. zigaga it will not be well with you were ever you are. The breakthrough came when Monalisa my best friend introduced me to this wonderful, great prophet named Prophet Abayotor who eventually helped me out. I have never been a fan of things like this but I just decided to try reluctantly because I was desperate and left with no choice, behold within a week after the regular prayers and proceeding, my parent call me on phone and said that I should come home immediately, when I did my husband was with them immediately he saw me he came to me and knelt down begging me to forgive him that he was so sorry for how he treated me. That it was his mother that made him dislike me so much, I was shocked and began to cry because I thought I lost him forever, immediately I forgave him and he promised that he will always love me, immediately he opt out in filing for the divorce from there we moved into our new apartment together. As for Prophet he is real and cleared my doubts, me made me belief in thing I never believed in Prophet Abayotor you are the best I say Thank you, you can see his website at http://www.ajamugatemple.com/ and contact him here at ajamugashrine @gmail.com or at ajamuaga.spiritual.love.temple@gmail.com and tell him I introduced you to him.

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  30. my mouth is full of testimony is just like a dream but is real all thanks to papa Dr saulat.
    I will continue to share this testimony sir till the whole world had of it. i am out here to spread this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex husband back.I was going crazy when my husband left me and my two kids for another woman last month, But i complained to my colleague in my place of work and she discuss with me her experience too and how she over come with the help of papa Dr saulat the great messenger God is using to help people, I narrated my problem to Dr saulat about how my Husband left me and my two kids and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it was been done,24 hours later,My Ex Husband called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me and the kids before now and one week after my Husband called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in a very big company here in Washington DC were i needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact saulatspellhome@yahoo.com on his personal email address or website http://drsaulatindiaspell.webs.com/ and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve

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  31. Being attracted to the same sex in countries like USA,UK Canada is really easily as i have heard.There are still people there who don't like people like us but it not as bad as that of Russia cos here we are beaten jailed and sometimes even killed.You can't hold the hand of the one you care about in the public so as to avoid been harassed we can even set a place to me cos if we are caught we face jail time.Here in Russia we gay are prisoner in our own country.I am currently in a relation with my fiance and we had to leave Russia to be together.Before now his parent were against our relationship cos they had no idea he was gay we sneaked around knowing the risks if we were to be caught.When he finally got heart to tell him family the rejected him and asked he stops seeing me or they were going to turn him in and that scared him a lot his father is a very powerful man in Russia and he made it possible for him not to be able to live the country i mean as long as you have money in Russia anything goes.I was lucky they never got to meet me cos if they did i would have not been here right now writing this article that you are all reading.Probably i would have been in jail.Months passed and there was no way we could see each other cos they had him watched to make sure he is never get to meet me and also to know the person the was he was practicing this profane act with as they called it.They stripped him of all his right to the family assets and made him an outcast i could see he was suffering form the text he was sending me they made his life miserable and made him end our relationship.I knew he was confused and did know what to do to get his life back to make his family see him the way they use to.And i knew that his family were never going to accept his life style cos they are so anti gay.If they were to be a fund riser to fight gay practice in Russia his family will be the first to ask that they host it.I love him so much but he was scared of him family and they also had a grip on him.I know most person don't believe in what about to say but still if it wasn't for Mutton Osun a spell caster that i found on the internet i would not have been writing this.It happened maybe by a slim chance or fate that i was a blog were it happened that i read three distinct comment about how he help them with similar problem.I contacted him with an email address that was in the comment.I asked Mutton Osun to cast a spell to make my then boyfriend to make up his mind to run away from Russia with me to be together and also his family as in his father to make it possible for him to leave Russia with me and set a very comfortable life for us were we were going.And i know doing spells with someone you can't even see is outrageous but i promise you he makes you feel more at else when he calls and he really goes through with his promise cos he did with mine he was really helpful to him and kind.And like other people said he doesn't even charge you for what he is doing for you.I had to provide some list of materials that he asked that i get for my spell casting.I preferred that i sent the money down to him cos they were not easy to find and even when i found them it was so expensive but he could get them cheaply.He instructed me on how to make the spell work with great effect.It took 7 seven day and night to see it result.On the seventh night my boyfriend call me to tell me we could finally be together cos his father did agreed to do all i asked mutton osun to make him do i just knew at once it was Mutton Osun spell cos it what i asked for and now me and fiance are the happiest right now we can hold hand now without fear of being harassed or sent to jail for we are in love and we are very comfortable here.His father made sure everything was set before we even got here just like i asked it should be.Am going to also leave Mutton Osun email here just like others have done for contact purpose godsofosunx@rocketmail.com

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  32. My husband has abandon me and the kids for the the past 8months now, and refuse to come back because he was hold on by a woman whom he just met, for that, my self and the kids has been suffering and it has been heal of a struggle, but I decide to do all means to make sure that my family come together as it use to, then I went online there I saw so many good talk about this spell caster whose email is (Olorunoduduwaspiritualtemple@gmail.com) so I had to contact him and explain my problem to him and in just 3days as he has promised, my husband came home and his behavior was back to the man i got married to. I cant thank the spell caster enough for what he did for me, i am so grateful and i will never stop to publish his name on the internet for the good work he has done for me,once again his email is Olorunoduduwaspiritualtemple@gmail.com

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  33. My husband has abandon me and the kids for the the past 8months now, and refuse to come back because he was hold on by a woman whom he just met, for that, my self and the kids has been suffering and it has been heel of a struggle, but I decide to do all means to make sure that my family come together as it use to, then I went online there I saw so many good talk about this spell caster whose email is LAVENDERLOVESPELL@YAHOO.com so I had to contact him and in just 4days as he has promised, my husband came home and his behavior was back to the man I got married to.I cant thank the spell caster enough what what he did for me, I am so grateful. I even spoke to the spell caster over the phone, to confirm his existence. His email again is: LAVENDERLOVESPELL@YAHOO.com

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  34. My name is Handford Ann,i base in canada.i want to share my wonderful testimony on how i got back my ex-lover of my life back, who i sworn to be with until when he left me to another woman for no reason and i try to make things work for both of us yet things where getting worse and i love him so much and there is nothing i could do to get my ex back until i met a testimony share by Maria from USA on the internet talking about a powerful spell caster who brought his ex lover back within 48hours and i decide to give it a try and to my greatest surprise he also did it for me just as he did for Maria and i have a lot of people complaining of fake spell caster but this one i met was a real spell caster who help me to solve my problem i have no solution to,i introduce many of my best friends that have a similar problems,and their problem were solve with the great help of dr.Trust.they get back their ex within 48 hours.i am so happy that my ex is back to me again,and the most surprise,is that our love is very strong,every day is happiness and joy. and there is nothing like been with the man you love.i am so happy my love is back to me with the help of Dr.Trust.if you have similar problem i will advice you to contact him ,he is there to help you and put a smile on your face ask he did to me and others.contact email(ultimatespellcast@gmail.com or ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com call +2348156885231) what will i have done if not the great help of dr.trust. Thanks Handford Ann from canada.

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  35. My name is Taylor Borg,All thanks goes to Dr.Trust for saving my marriage from toning apart.i feel so grateful and only have good words about a powerful spell caster named Dr.Trust who helped me bring back my wife. We had been apart for 4 months, at first I was thinking if I was doing the right thing by contacting a spell caster, but I so much love my wife and won't give her up for anything in this world. I decided to contact Dr.Trust through his mail address I found on several testifiers messages online,and I told him about my situation, he laughed and told me my wife will be back to me in the next 48 hours. I felt it wasn't going to happen at first until my wife called me and was so eager to have me back more than anything on earth.. Now we are together and she cant do without me,and both of us are happy. I feel so happy sharing this testimony because there was no negative act attached to his work. His work was smooth and fast. Thanks to Dr.Trust for bringing back happiness to my life. I swear with my life that Dr.Trust is a man to trust and take your problems to. You can contact him on his e-mail if you really truly want your love back. dr.(ULTIMATESPELLCAST@GMAIL.COM OT ULTIMATESPELLCAST@YAHOO.COM TEL: +2348156885231)

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  36. This is a testimony that I will tell to every one to hear. I have been married four 4years and on the fifth year of my marriage, another woman had a spell to take my lover away from me and my husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 2years until I met a post where this man DR OLOKUM have helped someone and I decided to give him a try to help me bring my lover back home and believe me I just send my picture to him and that of my husband and after 48hours as he have told me, I saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why I am happy to make every one of you in similar to met with this man and have your lover back to your self. His email:lavenderlovespell@yahoo.com

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  37. This is real take it serious, who will believe that a herb can cure 7
    years HIV in my body, i never believe that this will work i have spend a
    lot getting drugs from the hospital to keep me healthy, what i was waiting
    for is death because i was broke. One day i heard about this great man who
    is well known of HIV and cancer cure, i decided to email him, unknowingly
    to me that this will be the end of the HIV aids in my body, he prepare the
    herb for me, and give me instruction on how to take it, at the end of the
    two week, he told me to go to the hospital for a check up, and i went,
    surprisingly after the test the doctor confirm me negative, i thought it
    was a joke, i went to another hospital, it was also negative, then i took
    my friend who was also HIV positive to the Dr, after the treatment she was
    also confirm negative . He also have the herb to cure cancer... please i
    want everyone with this virus to be free, that is why am dropping his
    email address, ogboduspellhome@gmail.com...his phone number[2347069492065, 2347050485554]... do email him he is a great man.
    Thank you for saving my life, and I promise I will always testify for your
    good work.

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  38. I was so happy when my lover called me and started begging me to accept him back after leaving me for another girl. My relationship was going on well till when my lover started having an affair with one of his Co-worker and then he started coming home late and he also started been harsh to me till he was bold enough to me tell me that he has another girlfriend in his office and he wants to calling it a quit with me. I was so heart broken and i needed a fast solution to my problem that was when a friend of mine gave me these contact in-formations via email: zabaza.logan@yahoo.com or call +2348182620374 she told me that these details belong to Dr.Zabaza that he is a very powerful spell caster who is capable to help me with my problems. Truly after contacting Dr.Zabaza my problems were solved within 48 hours and my lover called me to apologies for hurting me. Today my lover has left his Co-Worker and our relationship has be more tighten than ever before

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  39. who ever is reading this testimony today should please celebrate with me and my family because it all started like a joke to some people and others said it was impossible. my name is Michael i live in Chicago i am happily married with two kids and a lovely wife something terrible happen to my family along the line, i lost my job and my wife packed out of my house because i was unable to take care of her and my kids at that particular time. i manage all through five years, no wife to support me to take care of the children and there come a faithful day that i will never forget in my life i met an old friend who i explain all my difficulties to, and he took me to a spell caster and and the name of the temple is called, DR Okundonor, i was assure that everything will be fine and my wife will come back to me after the wonderful work of Dr Okundonorgreatspell, my wife came back to me and today i am one of the richest man in my country. i advice you if you have any problem email him with this email: dr.okundonorgreatspell@gmail.com and you will have the best result. take things for granted and it will be take from you. i wish you all the best.

    Contact:( dr.okundonorgreatspell@gmail.com), or call he with this phone number, +2348137828640

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  40. my name is jim lena.I am really pleased with this service. I am one of those people who said, “I’ll never call a psychic or a magician or whatever” to help me with my problems – least of all my love problems, but I reached the point where I knew I needed some guidance, and I’m so glad I found this man called dr.zaba. I never in a million years would have thought I’d be writing a letter like this, but when I nearly lost Andrew in one of our stupid,fights (he broke up with me), I thought I had lost everything.i cry all day and think that he will never come back to me again.i read a testimony by a man called zerek paul about him saying that how dr.zaba help him to get back is EX wife within 48n hours.I qiuckly email him.and also get back my husand with his love spell. And when I was at my most desperate,he didn’t take advantage of me. You performed a very good service for a person in true need. I don’t know how you did it, or how this magic works, but all I know is, IT WORKS!! Andrew my husband and I are happily back together, and I’ll always be grateful to dr.zaba email him for any kinds of help is very capable and reliable for help(Makiaderspelltemple@hotmail.com)

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  41. my name is jim lena.I am really pleased with this service. I am one of those people who said, “I’ll never call a psychic or a magician or whatever” to help me with my problems – least of all my love problems, but I reached the point where I knew I needed some guidance, and I’m so glad I found this man called dr.zaba. I never in a million years would have thought I’d be writing a letter like this, but when I nearly lost Andrew in one of our stupid,fights (he broke up with me), I thought I had lost everything.i cry all day and think that he will never come back to me again.i read a testimony by a man called zerek paul about him saying that how dr.zaba help him to get back is EX wife within 48n hours.I qiuckly email him.and also get back my husand with his love spell. And when I was at my most desperate,he didn’t take advantage of me. You performed a very good service for a person in true need. I don’t know how you did it, or how this magic works, but all I know is, IT WORKS!! Andrew my husband and I are happily back together, and I’ll always be grateful to dr.zaba email him for any kinds of help is very capable and reliable for help(Makiaderspelltemple@hotmail.com)

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  42. My name is Taylor Borg,All thanks goes to Dr.Trust for saving my marriage from toning apart.i feel so grateful and only have good words about a powerful spell caster named Dr.Trust who helped me bring back my wife. We had been apart for 4 months, at first I was thinking if I was doing the right thing by contacting a spell caster, but I so much love my wife and won't give her up for anything in this world. I decided to contact Dr.Trust through his mail address I found on several testifiers messages online,and I told him about my situation, he laughed and told me my wife will be back to me in the next 48 hours. I felt it wasn't going to happen at first until my wife called me and was so eager to have me back more than anything on earth.. Now we are together and she cant do without me,and both of us are happy. I feel so happy sharing this testimony because there was no negative act attached to his work. His work was smooth and fast. Thanks to Dr.Trust for bringing back happiness to my life. I swear with my life that Dr.Trust is a man to trust and take your problems to. You can contact him on his e-mail if you really truly want your love back. dr.(ULTIMATESPELLCAST@GMAIL.COM OT ULTIMATESPELLCAST@YAHOO.COM TEL: +2348156885231)

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  43. My name is morgan keri.i want to give thanks to dr.trust for bringing back my ex husband.No one could have ever made me believe that the letter I’m about to write would actually one day be written. I was the world’s biggest skeptic. I never believed in magic spells or anything like this, but I was told by a reliable source (a very close co-worker) that Trust is a very dedicated, gifted, and talented person,It was one of the best things I have ever done. My love life was in shambles; I had been through two divorces and was on the brink of a third. I just couldn't face another divorce, and I wanted to try harder to make our relationship work, but my husband didn’t seem to care. and he brake up with me again.I was confuse and do not no what to do again,rather them to get in contact with dr.trust. He did a love spell that make my husband come back to me. we are now very much happy with ourself. dr.trust make him to realise how much we love and need each other.This man is for REAL and for good.he can also help you to fix your broken relationship. I had my husband back! It was like a miracle! He suddenly wanted to go to marriage counselling, and we’re doing very, very well,in our love life.contact email(ultimatespellcast@gmail.com or ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com tel:+234186885231)

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  44. i can't really believe that i am with my Ex-Husband back after when he broke up with me with 4 kids i thank Dr Atakpo of (dratakpospelltemple@gmail.com) for helping me getting back my man back, My Name is Mrs Rhona Cole i am from England and my man name is Mr Alan Cole, my happiness turn to bitterness,my joy turn to sorrow,my love turn to hate when my husband broke up with me last week,i was so frustrated and i could not know what next to do again, i was so unthinkable and i could not concentrate any more, i love my husband so much but he was cheating on me with another woman and this makes him broke up with me so that he can be able to get marry to the other lady and this lady i think cast a spell on my husband to make him hate me and my kids and this was so critical and uncalled-for,I cry all day and night for God to send me a helped to get back my man until i went to Westmoreland to see a friend and who was having he same problem with me but she latter got her Husband back and i asked her how she was able to get her husband back and she told me that their was a powerful spell caster in Africa name DR ATAKPO that he help with love spell in getting back lost lover's back and i decided to contacted the same Dr Atakpo and he told me what is needed to be done for me to have my man back and i did it although i doubted it but i did it and the Dr told me that i will get the result after 24hours, and he told me that my husband was going to call me by 9pm in my time and i still doubted his word, to my surprise my husband really called me and told me that he miss me so much Oh My God i was so happy, and today i am happily with my man again and we are joyfully living together as one good family and i thank the powerful spell caster Dr Atakpo of dratakpospelltemple@gmail.com, he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the internet that good spell casters still exist and Dr Atakpo is one of the good spell caster who i will always pray to live long to help his children in the time of trouble, if you are there and your lover is turning you down, or you have your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore contact the powerful spell caster Dr Atakpo on his email: dratakpospelltemple@gmail.com and he will answer you, i am a living testimony and i will continue to testify of his goodness in my family,he turn my family to paradise and today we are all happy together Dr Atakpo i say thank you in one million times thanks Dr.

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  45. My name is maria johan from malaysia. My boyfriend left me a month ago and he was leaving with another woman who is 10 years older than him,i feel like my life is completely over. I read over the internet how a spell caster have help several people to get there love back. I have been depress for the past one month and what i need is to get him back and live with him happily. so i decided to give it a try so i contacted the spell caster called Dr.Trust and explain my problems to him and he cast a love spell which i use to get my boyfriend back and now my life is complete and both of us are very happy with the relationship. and i am throughly grateful to this man,his contact email is ultimatespellcast@gmail.com or ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com Thank you very much and i am extremely greatful Tel: +2348156885231.And there is know evil attach to his spell.it will only make your relationship very stronger.

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  46. I am by name Mitchelle Andres from United states, i want to use this opportunity to thank the Great DR OVIA for helping in getting my Ex husband back to me, i have been in great pains until the day i contacted DR OVIA he casted a love spell for me and told me to wait for just 12 hours that my Ex husband will call me and i did according to the instructions given to me by him and surprisingly, in 12 hours, my Ex husband really called me and started apologizing for all he had caused me. I am the happiest Woman on earth today because DR OVIA has done a wonderful deeds in my life and i will continue to share this testimony, if you would love to contact DR OVIA and if you know you are encountering same condition, visit him today by contacting him via this valid email address: droviasolutioncenter@yahoo.com or contact him through his website on http:droviasolutioncenter.webs.com
    Thanks...

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  47. Thank you DR. EZIZA for making my lover to cancel our divorce paper. I would have been thrown out of the house if not because of you. You said it and you did it..I am the most happiest in the world today. You did it within a day. I feel like screaming to the world Thank you so much. His email address is ezizaoguntemple@gmail.com His personal mobile number is +2348058176289 I have read so much about you and will live to share this testimony..

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  48. I am joes candra, I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my boyfriend return back to me, and today with all due respect i want to thank DR.OSAUYI for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my boyfriend, I required help until i found a grate spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in two days after the spell has been cast. Three days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past 6 years now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. DR.OSAUYI released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I`m writing this testimony right now I`m the most happiest girl on earth and me and my boyfriend is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break up. So that`s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe.All thanks goes to DR.OSAUYI for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in any situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too. OSAUYILOVESPELL@GMAIL.COM OR OSAUYILOVESPELL@YAHOO.COM that is his email address bye or you can call is hot line on +2348100515075

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  49. HOW DR CUBA HELPED ME GET MY EX BACK
    I AM DICKSON, my wife dumped me 9(nine) months ago after I accused her of seeing another man. I wanted her back in my life but she refused to have any contact with me. she changed her mobile number, blocked me from sending her mails and even on Facebook. I was so confused and lost concentration that made me lose my job, it was disastrous. I kept seeing on several blogs how a spell caster keeps helping people get their ex back and I contacted this spell caster called DR CUBA for help, he assured me in 48hours that my ex will return to me, and to my greatest surprise my ex called me for the first time since we broke up. I am so happy that my love is back again, we are now happier than ever and I have gotten a job far better than my previous one, once again thank you DR CUBA TEMPLE , you are truly gifted and powerful. Email this wonderful man on drcubatemple@gmail.com. He is the only answer to your problems. He can be of great help and I will not stop publishing his name for the good work he did for me . again his email address is drcubatemple@gmail.com or call Doctor on +2347038965900

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  50. Am Millan.L from California.I want to use this medium to tell you all about my spell caster.About two years ago I was having problems with my husband and he left me for another lady.I did everything I could to get my husband back all to no avail until last month when a friend of mine introduced me to DR.AGBAZARA TEMPLE were I met a great spellcaster who cast me a spell on my behalf .I did all I was told and 72hours later my husband came back home begging me for forgiveness.I forgave him and today we are living together again.You could be the next to tell your story why not try this AGBAZARA TEMPLE to solve your problem. Contact them via this email: (agbazara@gmail.com) OR call him on (+2348104102662).

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  51. Miss Lilian Rossy

    Hello, my name is Miss Lilian Rossy, I'm from USA. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is genuine and real. I never really believed in any of these things but when I was losing Garvin, I needed help and somewhere to turn badly. I found consultant.odia spells and i ordered a LOVE SPELL. Several days later, my phone rang. Garvin was his old self again and wanted to come back to me! Not only come back, the spell caster opened him up to how much I loved and needed him. Spell Casting isn't brainwashing, but they opened his eyes to how much we have to share together. I recommend anyone who is in my old situation to try it. It will bring you a wonderful surprises as well as your lover back to you. The way things were meant to be." you can contact the spell caster on Dr.kokotemple@gmail.com he's very nice and great.

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  52. Hello
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  53. I found a great spell caster online who helped me to get back my husband who has left me for pass 3 years. we where married for 8years without a child and my friend introduce me to a real spell caster named Dr Baba which I never believe it exist but after the meeting of this spell caster my problem where solved and now I am with my husband who left me for pass three years my life and my entire family are now happy now I have two kids with the help of this great spell caster. thanks to true worldwidesupremetemple@gmail.com . i never belive that my ex husband will be back to me again, thank God for the happiness he used his son to put in my face .

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  55. BRUNELDA NATO COULDN'T BE more true that how it was written. I know this cos i have also contacted Metodo and he pulled through help me stopped my soon to be fiancé from marrying a multi millionaire old man cos of money and also made sure it didn't ruined the relationship he man had with her father as his rich guy lawyer. It was almost like he wiped the idea of all their head cos when she called off the wedding nobody seem to care. That is way too good to be natural surely something supernatural happen. I will also leave his mail in case Metodoacamufortress@yahoo. com

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  56. Hello to you all here, i am Kisten Wilson. and i here to share to you all my testimony about this man called Dr ABULU , last year i got married to my husband Wilson Jefferson and we both have a body so we were both living happily together ever since we got married until early this year when my husband traveled to Australia for business trip and he told me and kid that he will be coming in two months time and he left , it was just 2 weeks when my husband stoped calling me and the kid so i was suprise and i started to wonder what is wrong until i heard that he is with a lady there and he was even planing to marry her and push me and my child out so i reported to his family but they could not stop him this time he has send me message to live the house before he return so i was so confused and do not know what to do so a friend of my mummy directed me to this man DR ABULU of abuluspiritualtemple@gmail.com, for help and solution and i quickly rush to contact him through his mail and he told me what to do and i did it and after two days mu husband called me and started begging me to forgive and forget all that he must have done to be that he was not his self so that is how i manage to save my relationship so with this great work done for me by DR ABULU i promised to share this to the world in-case any one is there with similar problems should contact him as well for solution and i know you must be saved okay
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    KIRSTEN WILSON

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